95 Long-Distance Relationship Questions to Play Together From Anywhere

How to play (even apart)

1. 1Open Who Knows You Best and start a new game, then tap share to get your magic link.
2. 2Send the link to your partner by text or chat. They tap it and join from wherever they are, no matter the time zone.
3. 3You both answer the same questions about yourselves, then guess what the other person said.
4. 4See your match percent together in real time, laugh at the misses, and run it back tomorrow.

Daily life apart

1. 1.What time of day do you most wish I was there with you?
2. 2.What is the first thing you do after we hang up the call?
3. 3.Which small part of your day would you love me to see?
4. 4.What song have you played the most this week?
5. 5.What is currently your comfort meal when you eat alone?
6. 6.Which room in your place feels most like you right now?
7. 7.What is on your nightstand at this exact moment?
8. 8.How many alarms do you set on a normal morning?
9. 9.What is the last photo you took on your phone?
10. 10.Which chore do you secretly enjoy doing?
11. 11.What is your go-to drink order lately?
12. 12.Who outside of me did you talk to most this week?
13. 13.What show are you watching that you might be saving to watch with me?
14. 14.What is your current phone wallpaper?
15. 15.Which time of the week do you feel busiest?
16. 16.What is the last thing that made you laugh out loud alone?
17. 17.How do you usually fall asleep when we are apart?

Missing you & feelings

1. 1.What is the moment in a normal day when you miss me most?
2. 2.Which of my habits do you find yourself craving when I am not around?
3. 3.What sound or smell instantly reminds you of me?
4. 4.What is the hardest part of being apart for you?
5. 5.Which of my texts have you reread more than once?
6. 6.What do you do on the days you really wish I was there?
7. 7.What is one thing I do that makes the distance feel smaller?
8. 8.Which photo of us is your favorite to look at?
9. 9.What do you miss most about being in the same room?
10. 10.How do you usually feel right before one of our calls?
11. 11.What is something I said that you still think about?
12. 12.Which of my voice messages would you save forever?
13. 13.What helps you most on a lonely night?
14. 14.What is one thing you wish I knew about how much I am missed?
15. 15.When did you last get a little teary thinking about us?
16. 16.What is your favorite way to say goodnight from far away?

Future & plans together

1. 1.Where do you most want us to live one day?
2. 2.What is the first thing you want to do the next time we are together?
3. 3.What does our perfect ordinary Sunday look like once we close the gap?
4. 4.Which trip should we take first when we can travel together?
5. 5.What is a tradition you want us to start when we live nearby?
6. 6.How do you picture our home being decorated?
7. 7.What pet would we get first, and what would we name it?
8. 8.What is one big goal you want us to hit together this year?
9. 9.Which city would be a dream to visit just the two of us?
10. 10.What does a normal weeknight dinner look like once we are in the same place?
11. 11.What is one milestone you are most excited for us to reach?
12. 12.How do you want us to celebrate the day the distance finally ends?
13. 13.What is a skill you want us to learn together someday?
14. 14.Where do you see us spending our next anniversary?
15. 15.What is the first home-cooked meal you want to make for me?
16. 16.What is something you want us to do more of once we are not apart?

Funny & light

1. 1.Who is more likely to fall asleep first on a late-night call?
2. 2.Which of us would survive longer with bad wifi?
3. 3.Who sends the most random photos during the day?
4. 4.If our love story was a movie, what would the title be?
5. 5.Who is more likely to forget the time zone difference?
6. 6.Which of us takes longer to pick something to watch together?
7. 7.Who would win in a video call staring contest?
8. 8.What is the silliest thing we have argued about over text?
9. 9.Who is more likely to send a typo and then send three corrections?
10. 10.If you could teleport to me for only ten minutes, what would we do?
11. 11.Who has the worse phone-camera angle?
12. 12.Which of us would panic more if the call dropped at a big moment?
13. 13.What emoji do you use with me the most?
14. 14.Who is more likely to plan a surprise visit?
15. 15.What nickname do you secretly want to call me?
16. 16.Who talks more during our calls, honestly?

Deep & meaningful

1. 1.What has this distance taught you about yourself?
2. 2.When did you first feel sure about us?
3. 3.What is a fear you have about the distance that you have not said out loud?
4. 4.How do you define trust in our relationship?
5. 5.What is one way you have grown since we have been apart?
6. 6.What do you need most from me on a hard day?
7. 7.What is a value of mine that you admire?
8. 8.When do you feel most connected to me even when we are far?
9. 9.What is something you want to understand better about me?
10. 10.What does commitment mean to you right now?
11. 11.What is a memory of us you never want to forget?
12. 12.How do you want us to handle disagreements when we cannot hug it out?
13. 13.What is one promise you would make to us for the next year?
14. 14.What part of our relationship are you proudest of?
15. 15.What helps you stay hopeful when the distance feels long?
16. 16.What do you hope I have learned about loving you well?

Would you rather / this or that

1. 1.Would you rather have one long call a week or a short call every day?
2. 2.Texting all day or one long voice note?
3. 3.Would you rather visit me or have me visit you next?
4. 4.Morning calls or late-night calls?
5. 5.Would you rather close the gap in a new city or one of our hometowns?
6. 6.Watch a movie together online or play a game together online?
7. 7.Would you rather plan every visit in detail or keep it spontaneous?
8. 8.Handwritten letters or surprise care packages?
9. 9.Would you rather count down to the next visit or not look at the date?
10. 10.Same bedtime on a call or fall asleep on the phone?
11. 11.Would you rather get a daily good-morning text or a daily goodnight text?
12. 12.A weekend visit every month or one long visit every few months?
13. 13.Would you rather share your screen or share your playlist?
14. 14.Send photos of your day or short videos of your day?
15. 15.Would you rather have a standing date night or surprise each other?
16. 16.Talk about the future a lot or stay focused on right now?
17. 17.Would you rather travel to meet halfway or always go to each other?

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