120 Would You Rather Questions for Couples

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1. 1Take turns reading a would you rather out loud and each pick your own answer before sharing.
2. 2Guess what your partner chose, then reveal both picks and talk about the surprising ones.
3. 3Play it scored in Who Knows You Best with a shared magic link to turn your guesses into a match percentage.

Funny

1. 1.Would you rather always have spinach in your teeth or always have a tag sticking out?
2. 2.Would you rather snore loudly every night or steal the blankets every night?
3. 3.Would you rather lose your phone or lose your charger on a trip?
4. 4.Would you rather sing every text you send me or rap every voicemail?
5. 5.Would you rather have a partner who narrates everything or one who whispers everything?
6. 6.Would you rather wear matching outfits for a year or matching haircuts for a month?
7. 7.Would you rather forget our anniversary or forget my birthday?
8. 8.Would you rather only communicate in emojis or only in song lyrics?
9. 9.Would you rather have a pet dragon or a pet unicorn for our home?
10. 10.Would you rather be stuck in an elevator together for a day or on a tiny boat?
11. 11.Would you rather have a fridge that only makes weird noises or a doorbell that never stops?
12. 12.Would you rather always laugh at the wrong moment or always cry at commercials?
13. 13.Would you rather both have terrible dance moves or terrible singing voices?
14. 14.Would you rather I always finish your sentences or always forget what we were saying?
15. 15.Would you rather have one giant pillow to share or fifteen tiny ones?
16. 16.Would you rather argue only in dramatic movie quotes or only in baby talk?
17. 17.Would you rather wake up speaking in an accent or wake up two feet taller?
18. 18.Would you rather have a couch that swallows the remote or a TV stuck on one channel?
19. 19.Would you rather both be terrible cooks or terrible drivers?
20. 20.Would you rather have a houseplant that judges us or a mirror that gives bad advice?

Romantic and sweet

1. 1.Would you rather get a long handwritten love letter or a surprise weekend away?
2. 2.Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or watch the sunrise together?
3. 3.Would you rather relive our first date or relive our best trip together?
4. 4.Would you rather have breakfast in bed made for you or made together?
5. 5.Would you rather get flowers every week or a heartfelt note every week?
6. 6.Would you rather hear I love you first thing in the morning or last thing at night?
7. 7.Would you rather have a quiet candlelit dinner at home or a rooftop dinner out?
8. 8.Would you rather have your hand held in public or a forehead kiss in private?
9. 9.Would you rather get a playlist of songs that remind me of you or a photo album of us?
10. 10.Would you rather fall asleep talking or wake up cuddling?
11. 11.Would you rather have a song that is ours or a place that is ours?
12. 12.Would you rather be told you are loved or be shown it through little acts?
13. 13.Would you rather get a surprise visit at work or a surprise dinner at home?
14. 14.Would you rather relive the day we met or the day we said I love you?
15. 15.Would you rather walk on the beach at night or stargaze in the backyard?
16. 16.Would you rather get a good morning text every day or a goodnight call every night?
17. 17.Would you rather plan a surprise for me or be surprised by me?
18. 18.Would you rather have a slow lazy Sunday together or a sunset adventure?
19. 19.Would you rather be greeted with a big hug or a soft kiss?
20. 20.Would you rather grow old somewhere new or somewhere familiar together?

Deep and meaningful

1. 1.Would you rather know all the ways I love you or all the things I admire about you?
2. 2.Would you rather work through hard times together or avoid hard times altogether?
3. 3.Would you rather feel deeply understood or deeply supported?
4. 4.Would you rather talk about our future tonight or our favorite memories?
5. 5.Would you rather know my biggest fear or my biggest dream?
6. 6.Would you rather have more time together or more adventure together?
7. 7.Would you rather be loved exactly as you are or be inspired to grow?
8. 8.Would you rather always say what you feel or always know what I feel?
9. 9.Would you rather have a calm, steady life or a bold, unpredictable one with me?
10. 10.Would you rather forgive quickly or be forgiven quickly?
11. 11.Would you rather build our dream home or travel the world with no home base?
12. 12.Would you rather be remembered as kind or as fearless?
13. 13.Would you rather know what I needed before I asked or always be asked first?
14. 14.Would you rather face a fear together or chase a dream together?
15. 15.Would you rather have deep talks at midnight or honest talks over coffee?
16. 16.Would you rather feel chosen every day or feel free every day?
17. 17.Would you rather change one thing about our past or know one thing about our future?
18. 18.Would you rather give more or receive more in love?
19. 19.Would you rather have fewer years that are full or many years that are calm?
20. 20.Would you rather be each other's comfort or each other's challenge?

Spicy (PG-13)

1. 1.Would you rather have a long makeout session or a long massage?
2. 2.Would you rather slow dance close or sneak a kiss in the corner?
3. 3.Would you rather get a flirty text in the middle of the day or a wink across the room?
4. 4.Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon tonight?
5. 5.Would you rather have a candlelit bubble bath together or a lazy morning in bed?
6. 6.Would you rather whisper something cheeky or leave a flirty note?
7. 7.Would you rather get a neck kiss or a hand on the back of your neck?
8. 8.Would you rather have a slow night or a spontaneous one?
9. 9.Would you rather flirt over a fancy dinner or in the back of a taxi?
10. 10.Would you rather be teased a little or spoiled a lot?
11. 11.Would you rather have a weekend with no plans and no phones or a fancy night out?
12. 12.Would you rather get caught staring at me or catch me staring at you?
13. 13.Would you rather share a long hug or a long look across the room?
14. 14.Would you rather have a playful pillow fight or a slow cuddle?
15. 15.Would you rather get a compliment that makes you blush or a kiss that catches you off guard?
16. 16.Would you rather a stolen kiss in public or a private slow dance?
17. 17.Would you rather wake up to coffee in bed or breakfast and a flirty good morning?
18. 18.Would you rather be whisked away unexpectedly or seduced slowly all evening?
19. 19.Would you rather hear what I find attractive about you or show you what I mean?
20. 20.Would you rather have a late night talk under the covers or a morning that starts slow?

Hypotheticals

1. 1.Would you rather win a year of free travel or a year with no work and full pay?
2. 2.Would you rather be able to teleport together or pause time together?
3. 3.Would you rather live by the ocean or in the mountains together?
4. 4.Would you rather have a tiny cabin in the woods or a loft in the city?
5. 5.Would you rather be famous together or rich and anonymous?
6. 6.Would you rather relive the same great year forever or always move forward?
7. 7.Would you rather have a house full of pets or a house full of guests?
8. 8.Would you rather win the lottery or never have to work again?
9. 9.Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal travel planner?
10. 10.Would you rather time travel to our past or take a peek at our future?
11. 11.Would you rather move abroad on a whim or plan it for years?
12. 12.Would you rather have a vacation home or a boat we live on?
13. 13.Would you rather be able to read each other's minds or never argue again?
14. 14.Would you rather adopt ten dogs or raise a tiny farm?
15. 15.Would you rather have endless date night ideas or endless vacation days?
16. 16.Would you rather speak every language together or play every instrument?
17. 17.Would you rather get one free wish each or three shared wishes?
18. 18.Would you rather host every holiday or never host again?
19. 19.Would you rather live in a different decade or a different country?
20. 20.Would you rather have a magic budget for travel or for our home?

Daily life

1. 1.Would you rather do the cooking or do the dishes?
2. 2.Would you rather wake up first or stay up later?
3. 3.Would you rather plan the weekend or go with the flow?
4. 4.Would you rather handle the budget or handle the groceries?
5. 5.Would you rather take out the trash or fold the laundry?
6. 6.Would you rather drive on a road trip or be the navigator?
7. 7.Would you rather choose the restaurant or choose the movie?
8. 8.Would you rather text all day or save it all for the evening?
9. 9.Would you rather sleep with the window open or closed?
10. 10.Would you rather have a tidy home always or a relaxed home always?
11. 11.Would you rather meal prep on Sundays or decide dinner each night?
12. 12.Would you rather walk the dog or feed the dog?
13. 13.Would you rather pick the playlist on a drive or pick the podcast?
14. 14.Would you rather have a set morning routine or a slow flexible one?
15. 15.Would you rather do chores together or split them up?
16. 16.Would you rather host friends at home or always go out to meet them?
17. 17.Would you rather keep the thermostat warm or cool?
18. 18.Would you rather be in charge of vacation planning or weekend planning?
19. 19.Would you rather have date night on a Friday or a lazy Sunday together?
20. 20.Would you rather make the bed every day or never worry about it?

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