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140 This or That Questions: The Ultimate Two-Option Game

Updated May 2026 · 146 questions

This or that questions give you two options and ask you to pick one, like coffee or tea. They work great as a two-player game: each person picks for themselves, then you guess what the other chose. Compare your guesses to see how well you actually know each other and rack up a match percentage.

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How to play

  1. 1Take turns reading a question out loud and both lock in your own pick before saying it.
  2. 2Now guess what the other person chose, then reveal both answers at the same time.
  3. 3Score a point for every correct guess and keep a running tally to crown the winner.
  4. 4Want it scored automatically? Open Who Knows You Best, share a magic link, and play these online for an instant match percentage.

Food and drink

  1. 1.Coffee or tea?
  2. 2.Sweet or savory?
  3. 3.Pizza or burgers?
  4. 4.Pancakes or waffles?
  5. 5.Ketchup or mustard?
  6. 6.Fries or onion rings?
  7. 7.Chocolate or vanilla?
  8. 8.Crunchy or smooth peanut butter?
  9. 9.Tacos or burritos?
  10. 10.Soup or salad?
  11. 11.Cake or pie?
  12. 12.Hot sauce or ranch?
  13. 13.Sushi or steak?
  14. 14.Cereal first or milk first?
  15. 15.Iced coffee or hot coffee?
  16. 16.Wine or beer?
  17. 17.Bacon or sausage?
  18. 18.Cookies or brownies?
  19. 19.Pasta or rice?
  20. 20.Sparkling water or still water?
  21. 21.Pineapple on pizza, yes or no?
  22. 22.Dark chocolate or milk chocolate?

Lifestyle

  1. 1.Early bird or night owl?
  2. 2.Shower in the morning or at night?
  3. 3.Texting or calling?
  4. 4.Books or movies?
  5. 5.City or countryside?
  6. 6.Window seat or aisle seat?
  7. 7.Cats or dogs?
  8. 8.Save your money or spend it?
  9. 9.Make the bed or leave it?
  10. 10.Plan everything or wing it?
  11. 11.Work from home or work in an office?
  12. 12.Big party or small gathering?
  13. 13.Cook at home or order takeout?
  14. 14.Gym or outdoor run?
  15. 15.Hot weather or cold weather?
  16. 16.Tidy desk or organized chaos?
  17. 17.Long bath or quick shower?
  18. 18.Audiobooks or podcasts?
  19. 19.Wake up to an alarm or wake up naturally?
  20. 20.Mountains or beach?
  21. 21.Spend the weekend out or stay in?
  22. 22.Drive or be driven?

Travel and adventure

  1. 1.Beach vacation or ski trip?
  2. 2.Road trip or flight?
  3. 3.Backpacking or luxury hotel?
  4. 4.Camping or glamping?
  5. 5.Explore a new city or relax by the pool?
  6. 6.Carry-on only or check a bag?
  7. 7.Solo trip or group trip?
  8. 8.Museums or hiking?
  9. 9.Cruise or all-inclusive resort?
  10. 10.Sunrise hike or sunset cocktails?
  11. 11.Street food or fancy restaurant abroad?
  12. 12.Same place every year or somewhere new?
  13. 13.Tent or RV?
  14. 14.Map it all out or follow the locals?
  15. 15.Train through Europe or road trip across the country?
  16. 16.Snorkeling or skydiving?
  17. 17.Stay one week somewhere or hop between cities?
  18. 18.Passport stamps or staycations?
  19. 19.Desert or rainforest?
  20. 20.Wake up early to sightsee or sleep in on vacation?

Pop culture

  1. 1.Marvel or DC?
  2. 2.Star Wars or Star Trek?
  3. 3.Movies or TV series?
  4. 4.Comedy or horror?
  5. 5.Subtitles or dubbed?
  6. 6.Binge the whole season or one episode a week?
  7. 7.Theater or streaming at home?
  8. 8.Pop or hip hop?
  9. 9.Throwback hits or new releases?
  10. 10.Reality TV or documentaries?
  11. 11.Action or romance?
  12. 12.Read the book first or watch the movie first?
  13. 13.Concerts or festivals?
  14. 14.Vinyl or playlists?
  15. 15.Animated or live action?
  16. 16.Sequel or original?
  17. 17.Spoilers or surprises?
  18. 18.Award shows or skip them?
  19. 19.True crime or sci-fi?
  20. 20.Memes or actual news?

Funny and random

  1. 1.Fight one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses?
  2. 2.Always be ten minutes late or always twenty minutes early?
  3. 3.Lose your phone or lose your keys?
  4. 4.Sneeze glitter or burp bubbles?
  5. 5.Never use a fork again or never use a spoon again?
  6. 6.Be a little too hot or a little too cold forever?
  7. 7.Have unlimited tacos or unlimited pizza?
  8. 8.Talk to animals or speak every language?
  9. 9.Be invisible or be able to fly?
  10. 10.Sing everything you say or dance everywhere you go?
  11. 11.Toilet paper over or under?
  12. 12.Pop your knuckles or crack your neck?
  13. 13.Stub your toe or bite your tongue?
  14. 14.Step on a Lego or get a paper cut?
  15. 15.Wear the same outfit forever or eat the same meal forever?
  16. 16.Have a rewind button or a pause button for life?
  17. 17.Be the funniest person or the smartest person in the room?
  18. 18.Have hiccups for a year or feel like you need to sneeze for a year?
  19. 19.Live without music or live without dessert?
  20. 20.Read minds or see the future?

For couples

  1. 1.Stay in or go out for date night?
  2. 2.Cook together or get takeout together?
  3. 3.Cuddle or have your own space while sleeping?
  4. 4.Surprise gift or pick it out yourself?
  5. 5.PDA or keep it private?
  6. 6.Adventure date or cozy date?
  7. 7.Big wedding or tiny ceremony?
  8. 8.Morning kiss or goodnight kiss?
  9. 9.Share one dessert or order your own?
  10. 10.Plan the anniversary or be surprised by it?
  11. 11.Slow dance in the kitchen or go out dancing?
  12. 12.Long love letter or long voice note?
  13. 13.Same hobbies or your own separate hobbies?
  14. 14.Watch the same show together or watch your own things?
  15. 15.Quick weekend getaway or one big trip a year?
  16. 16.Splurge on experiences or on nice things?
  17. 17.Movie on the couch or dinner reservation?
  18. 18.Talk through a problem right away or take a beat first?
  19. 19.Holidays with your family or their family?
  20. 20.Renew your vows or skip the fuss?

Would they pick (about your partner or friend)

  1. 1.Would they pick coffee or tea?
  2. 2.Would they pick a night in or a night out?
  3. 3.Would they pick the beach or the mountains?
  4. 4.Would they pick sweet or savory?
  5. 5.Would they pick a dog or a cat?
  6. 6.Would they pick texting or calling?
  7. 7.Would they pick adventure or relaxation on vacation?
  8. 8.Would they pick comedy or horror?
  9. 9.Would they save the money or spend it?
  10. 10.Would they wake up early or sleep in?
  11. 11.Would they pick a big party or a small dinner?
  12. 12.Would they pick pizza or sushi?
  13. 13.Would they pick a road trip or a flight?
  14. 14.Would they choose books or movies?
  15. 15.Would they cook or order takeout?
  16. 16.Would they pick the window seat or the aisle?
  17. 17.Would they want a surprise party or a quiet birthday?
  18. 18.Would they pick a planned trip or a spontaneous one?
  19. 19.Would they pick the gym or the couch?
  20. 20.Would they choose the city or the countryside?
  21. 21.Would they pick a thriller or a rom-com?
  22. 22.Would they rather host or be a guest?

Play it for real, with a score

Answer about yourself, guess each other, and get a match percentage with a shareable result card. Free to play, no account, no data collected, together or online by sharing a link.

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Frequently asked questions

What are this or that questions?

They are quick questions that give you exactly two choices and ask you to pick one, like coffee or tea or beach or mountains. There are no wrong answers, which makes them an easy, low-pressure way to learn what someone likes.

How do you turn this or that into a guessing game?

Each person picks their own answer first, then you take turns guessing what the other chose before revealing. You score a point for every correct guess. In the Who Knows You Best app this happens automatically and adds up to a match percentage.

How many people can play?

Two is the sweet spot for the guessing version, but a whole group can play by going around the circle and predicting each other's picks. The more you guess for each other, the more fun the reveals get.

Are these good for couples or just friends?

Both. The food, lifestyle, and pop culture rounds work for anyone, and the couples and would-they-pick sections are made for partners who want to test how well they read each other.

Can we play this or that long distance?

Yes. Read them over a call, or use Who Knows You Best with a shared magic link so you both answer and guess from your own phones, no matter the distance, and get scored instantly.

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